Self loving girls want the best in their life.
We can ask ourselves why we allow ourselves to settle and be treated badly. What decisions or patterns prevent us from living fulfilling loving relationships with others.
What can we do to be more self loving, express how other people's actions make us feel, take responsibility for our actions and make new decisions ?
Making decisions to live a more self loving life are not always easy. When another person is involved, things can get slightly more complicated.
Never give up. Take stock of how much you have changed throughout the years and take pride in how much more self loving you are now :)
Every small step counts !
Thursday, September 29, 2011
Sunday, September 25, 2011
New plan- becoming driven with the zest of life
There are many times i have laid in bed, awake but not ready to get up and go through the day. Lying with my eyes open, pondering about my life, i often fall back asleep (my mind has made the decision that i would rather be asleep than awake, doing stuff). I can say that i'm an expert on this daily cycle of 'to wake or not to wake'.
Usually, i blame it on a subconscious decision not live, that its too hard to be in this physical body, that everything is such an effort. Mentally i know this is a thought of living weakly, not using the power of creation in life. However, i often find that taking action is not as simple as i had planned.
Thinking back on my past and where i am now, using the ultimate success formula must mean that i should try something different to get a different outcome.
In the past, i have been living a powerless and unmotivated life. I feel driven and excited by relationships that are going well and new fun projects. Still living like a little child, i made decisions based on what other people (usually my parents) wanted for me. I appreciate their best efforts and good intentions.
Now, i decide that i want to be a creator of my life, to be more driven and self motivated by what i want. To lead a balanced life where I honour my needs, desires and wants and constantly remind myself of why i want these things and prefer it over sleeping 12 hours a day. Not that sleep is bad, because during slumber we always get back into the vortex, into allignment with who we really are. I could continue my past habits of being unable to wake up, but i choose to live life differently now.
I wake up in joy, eager for the day to play out. It is when i am awake that i create my life. Being asleep is fun and awesome to be paying in the astral, but now i choose to come back grounded in my body and have an awesome time awake and alive !
To have a new mentality about life and waking up, is like building a new habit. It will take some time, effort and constant realligning with who i want to be based on who I AM. I know these things, now is the time to put into action.
When i get clearer about my life, i get clearer when i speak and write.
Usually, i blame it on a subconscious decision not live, that its too hard to be in this physical body, that everything is such an effort. Mentally i know this is a thought of living weakly, not using the power of creation in life. However, i often find that taking action is not as simple as i had planned.
Thinking back on my past and where i am now, using the ultimate success formula must mean that i should try something different to get a different outcome.
In the past, i have been living a powerless and unmotivated life. I feel driven and excited by relationships that are going well and new fun projects. Still living like a little child, i made decisions based on what other people (usually my parents) wanted for me. I appreciate their best efforts and good intentions.
Now, i decide that i want to be a creator of my life, to be more driven and self motivated by what i want. To lead a balanced life where I honour my needs, desires and wants and constantly remind myself of why i want these things and prefer it over sleeping 12 hours a day. Not that sleep is bad, because during slumber we always get back into the vortex, into allignment with who we really are. I could continue my past habits of being unable to wake up, but i choose to live life differently now.
I wake up in joy, eager for the day to play out. It is when i am awake that i create my life. Being asleep is fun and awesome to be paying in the astral, but now i choose to come back grounded in my body and have an awesome time awake and alive !
To have a new mentality about life and waking up, is like building a new habit. It will take some time, effort and constant realligning with who i want to be based on who I AM. I know these things, now is the time to put into action.
When i get clearer about my life, i get clearer when i speak and write.
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