Being sexy is a wonderful thing. It's great to be in touch with your body, exuding sexualness from being comfortable in the way you look. Who gets to define what being sexy is anyway. No matter what you look like, if you feel sexy then you are sexy. And when you feel good, no doubt guys are going to want a piece of you.
Because I have fallen trap to having sex for the wrong reasons, I admire my friends who honor their body and have the self love to say NO to sex.
If you are not in a committed relationship with him and are planning to get intimate for the following reasons, do think twice and check with your body if that is really what you want to do.
1. To feel loved
2. To feel sexy, hot, desirable and wanted
3. To keep the guy
4. To feel better about yourself
5. Afraid of saying no
If you don't feel 100% sure about getting physically intimate with a guy, it is probably not the right decision for you. Having sex for the reasons above, and any reason other than to further enhance emotional intimacy in your relationship, only leads to heartache. Know that you have the power to walk away from any situation and cause him physical pain if needed. Being true to what your heart tells you is more rewarding then leaving with regret and disappointment.
Self love comes from within. You will feel better when you love yourself instead of looking outside you for love. Looking for validation of how beautiful, gorgeous and sexy you are will never be as fulfilling as knowing that you are an amazing woman.
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